Soul Ties and Attachments
We naturally form ties with our family, relatives and/or close friends – just like David did with Jonathon. 1 Samuel 18:1 tells us that ‘…the soul of Jonathan was knit with the soul of David, and Jonathan loved him as his own soul.
But the opposite is also possible! The enemy will allow people to come into our lives to form ungodly ties and attachments. These attachments will usually be very appealing to the flesh but toxic to the spirit!
1 Corinthians 15:33 ‘Do not be deceived: bad company corrupts good morals.’
God is intentional in all He does. He will help us form Godly friendships and relationships so we can receive wisdom, encouragement and fellowship through those Godly associations.
Another way we form healthy Godly ties or attachments is through marriage as two become one. Matthew 19:5 ‘For this reason a man shall leave his father and mother and shall be joined inseparably to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh’
Ungodly Soul Ties
But ungodly soul ties are formed if someone has sex outside of marriage as the bible tells us it’s wrong. (2. Hebrews 13:4, 1 Corinthians 7:2) Or if someone is drawn to their first love or repeatedly goes over what happened, when they were together, they may be soul-tied. Others may have ‘feelings’ towards an old partner as a consequence of a tie that was formed.
Some become obsessed with celebrities and will even go to the extreme of decorating their home with posters and memorabilia of their favourite celebrity. Or if you can’t stop ‘thinking’ about a person then it could be an unhealthy soul tie. Additionally, if someone is asserting pressure over you or controlling you, over and above their role or friendship this may be an indication of an unhealthy soul-tie and it needs breaking in Jesus name.
Unhealthy soul ties can also be used against us. I prayed with a young man at a conference and he was in a sexual relationship with someone who was into the occult. He was a Christian but was in a mess as he had overstepped the boundaries of God’s protection, and what was in her was able to transfer to him. But thankfully, God is always gracious to forgive, forget and heal!
How to break soul ties
- REPENTANCE: Firstly take time to repent to the Lord. He knows it all anyway but for our benefit, we need to offload to the Lord. If the soul tie was formed through sex outside marriage tell the Lord how sorry you are. Maybe it was through drug-taking with someone, or a drinking buddy give it to the Lord. Do you have an obsession with a celebrity tell the Lord. If you can’t remember all the names of those with who you’ve been physically intimate with – don’t panic! God will hear the sincere petition of your heart if you do a job lot.
- FORGIVENESS: Forgive the person/people for your own benefit, if they have hurt or harmed you, and choose to let them go, also forgive yourself.
- RENUNCIATION: Any inner vows, commitments, statements etc that helped create the soul tie need to be repented and renounce.
Say this out loud and edit where necessary.
In the name of Jesus Christ, I repent and renounce all vows, statements, commitments which I have made, knowingly or unknowingly, against myself or anyone else. I specifically renounce……… (Name any vows which you have made, which you know to be wrong. It could be that you said you’d never love another person, or that you’d rather die than marry anyone else). I come out of agreement with those vows/statements and place the cross of Jesus between the law of sowing and reaping. I ask You, Lord, to totally cleanse me and set me free.
By the power of Jesus Christ, His death and resurrection, I take the sword of the spirit and I renounce, break and sever any ungodly soul ties formed between myself and *[say the name of the person] and I give the person back to you and I take myself back from [say the name of the person] and give myself back to you. I seal the ends in the blood of the lamb never to be reattached.
That is exactly right Scott and we definitely need Holy Spirit to guide us in everything! x
I recently (almost 2 & half months now) experienced forming a soul tie through a very unhealthy obsession with a celebrity, even though I am aware he had passed away over a decade ago..! I’ve always admired his immense talent & work in my youth but never thought much about it in later years.The Covid19 pandemic lockdown had me staying mostly locked in at home since March 18th. And I was missing working at my office a lot.I guess this state of mind I was in suddenly led me to start reading up pages online about him, his life, career, his first family, etc.I got so engrossed in the details of his life, I didn’t realise that I was forming an emotional attachment to him.Soon I was watching his videos, live performances, TV interviews etc.With each day, my admiration of him increased to a point of an obsession, leading to romantic fantasy, where often my first thoughts on waking up in the mornings would be about him!! So early this month, for several days I prayed a 10 mins. soul-tie breaking prayer I found online before I got a breakthrough in my spirit.
I still do struggle with random thoughts about this celebrity, I dont feel totally free & am standing in Gods promises to set me free completely. I still struggle to restrain myself from searching pages online for material on his life & work..It just seems hard to get over completely.
But Jesus will set me free!
Bless you Elizabeth, I have repled to your email address but will pray for you to be set free in Jesus name! x
Thanks Shauna.Yes I ve received your message.
Thanks for praying for me.
Bless you, such power in a testimony xx
Same here, I have a attachment with a celebrity. I deleted all his photo and everything, burnt up his CD and everything. I get into the habit of reading up on bible and getting involved with Godly things and instantly pray and ask the Holy Spirit to help me when this person comes to mind, it got so bad that the Devil put demons inside me and was hidden behind the name of “multiple personalities disorder” but actually it was demons making me think multiple people I admire where living with in me. I didn’t like acting as myself but I was pretending to be these celebrities. This disorder has no cure but I believe Jesus can heal anything and when I became saved the demons came out. Jesus opened my spiritual eyes that those people I made in my head were not my real friends but demons. They were based off real people but I was talking to them as if they were really there and struggled with that for over 15 years. I talk to God now when I’m lonely. The devil had me thinking I was just born like that and there is no cure and it’s just a disorder. God is perfect with all his creation and was not his will for me to live talking to imaginary people that’s not there for the rest of my life. I was partying in the middle of the night in my own world getting drunk with these people in my head, about 30+ people in my head. I had many alcohol overdoses, I was pushing away family and real people because I preferred to hang out with the people in my head. The devil is an angel of light. The devil will come to you in forms of innocent (a simple celebrity crush) but it turned into something unhealthy. Be careful with who you grow an attraction to, that why God makes boundaries and say do not idol, it can get you into a lot of trouble, physically ( drugs/alcohol), spiritually (souls ties), mentally( create disorders/mental illness), and breaks healthy relationships (God create humans to interact with real life humans, not to be alone like Adam in the garden by himself)
Bless you for all that you’ve been through. I believe God will restore all that the locusts have stolen! Our God is so faithful. The devil is a liar and indeed an angel of light. God bless you in your journey. Shauna x
Thanks for the valuable information about soul ties. I have one question. Can soul ties be formed through sexual fantasies about somone? Please im going through a rough time with letting go of this soul tie that i have possibly developed. Thanks